Wails & Whispers Between the Worlds
Wails & Whispers Between The Worlds - Grief Tending Retreat
Fri, Apr 03
|Valley Center
In this weekend retreat, we will gather to honor our grief and make space for its many expressions. Together, we will sing, move, pray, and remember our shared humanity through ritual.


Time & Location
Apr 03, 2026, 5:00 PM – Apr 05, 2026, 7:00 PM
Valley Center, 18940 Littlefield Ln, Valley Center, CA 92082, USA
Guests
About the event
"The work of the mature person is to carry grief in one hand and gratitude in the other and to be stretched large by them." — Francis Weller
What is Grief Tending?
Grief tending is a communal, embodied way of acknowledging and expressing the sorrow we carry in personal, ancestral, and collective. It honors the natural intelligence of grief as a form of praise for what we've loved and lost, and a pathway back into connection.
Many traditional cultures, including the Dagara people of Burkina Faso, consider grief rituals to be the threads that weave a village together. They create space for us to come back into right relationship with ourselves, one another, and the living world.
In this retreat, we are honored to carry the Dagara traditions shared with the West through elders Malidoma and Sobonfu Some), the soulful teachings of Francis Weller, the ceremonial grief songs and elder…